In Zig ZIglar's Attitude Makes All The Difference he talks about how whatever your dreams are you can achieve them simply by putting in the work. That really stuck out to me because It is something I stick by when attempting to accomplish my goals. I believe that if you really want something, that you would go for it and in return receive it. My attitude towards life really determines how you deal with issues in life. If you keep a positive attitude on things then you will attract only positive/good things. Your attitude really constructs your future whether its good or bad.
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This year is a pretty big deal for me. For the past couple months I have been non stop applying to universities, making calls, and setting up meetings. This is the most adult I have ever been in my life and its a true wake up call that I am indeed graduating soon and becoming an actual adult. Every second counts and I have to put my all in everything I do now. Every time i finish an application with essays an all, it motivates me to keep going, it empowers me because I feel that i'm actually doing something extremely important to benefit myself in the long run. It gets stressful at times but I refuse to stop even for a second. Just checking my email has a big impact on me, colleges sending me acceptance letters invigorates me, and actually makes me feel that i'm doing something right for once. The little things really have changed the way I think and go about my days for the best, just by simply making a call or writing an essay.
I am afraid of commitment. whether its a relationship or involving my future, I am terrified. I feel that it is sometimes because I am young, but then again probably because of my past relationships. with commitment comes trust and purpose, and I have to regain that for the sake of my future self. Insensibility towards people. my sarcasm and monotone voice aren't really helping with my friendships and family relations. I just always believe that everyone thinks like me so when I say something rude and/or out of line I never take into character about how the other person feels, or why they are upset. I need to learn to take in consideration of other peoples emotions and watch what I say.
A goal that I am working towards for now and in the future is having a set routine. I have problems with sticking with one thing and going for it with all my attention. I constantly get distracted and find something else that i'd rather do. This has affected my social life and my future career choices. I always feel the pressure to choose one things and stick with it even though Im still trying to discover myself as as a person, but now that im about to graduate high school, I have realized the importance of stability. I need to find something that i reallty enjoy and stick with it whether its my career, my social groups, or a simply excercise routine because it will help me in the long run when I become an adult.
Friendship
This means a lot to me. Even though my Friendships havent all succeded, maybe due to my young age, this is still something i look towards. i have had many powerful, emotional Friendships with people that i dont even talk to anymore. I understand now that that is okay and and sometimes feelings fade, and that you kind of just have to let that happen. Now that i understand that i am still growing as a person, i accept that feeling and cherish the people who are in my life now for however long they decide to be their, but in the end all is well. Honesty Something I look for in others. I bealive that there could be no relationship without honesty. Well not a healthy one at least. I believe its because people do indeed fear the truth whether their lying to someone or themselves. Once you break the barier and see things for what they truly are, then you can be at peace. Honesty leads to healthy realationships and a long care free life. Patience Still learning to this day. My eagerness always gets the best of me, and things sometimes dont come out the way I pictured it in my head. I have to learn that flowers take time to grow, and that overwatering it will only cause it to drown. In other words, The best things come with time and lots of sunlight. |
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