Emotional IntellegenceThis is definitely something that needs working on. I can say that i am in-tune with my emotions, but when something bad happens or negativity comes my way, i cant tell you how Id react. I'm an extremely optimistic person and i like too see the good in everything but it becomes hard when i suspect negative energy. I need to work on controlling my emotions so that I'm not destructive to myself and those around me. NoI don't take well to receiving and giving this word. I hate when I'm asking for a favor and the person says no. I don't throw a fit but I feel a certain way afterwards. If a friend told me No, my anxiety starts to surface and I feel guilty for even asking and start to blame myself for random things. When my parent says no I get a whole attitude and and resort to pettiness. Its hard for me too even say it because I'm a people pleaser and would rather not make that person upset at me or dislike me for saying No. They wont let anyone limit their joy...I have plans in the future. Many of my peers and family members don't agree with my choices, and my interests in life but I don't let that stop me from doing what i like. When I decided to get my nose pierced and, many of my family members and peers mad fun of me for it saying i wouldn't get a job or that i look like a bull, telling me to take it out and everything. I never let that get to me, and continued to wear it out proud, because i liked it. I don't let people opinions affect me because they are not me, and they have no control over my life.
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Mr. Daly
2/24/2017 07:00:17 am
great post.. yes.. negative energy and me...don't go together at all either. That's not to say I don't have it once in awhile... but I work my tail off trying not to have it happen. Good reminders here.. thanks :-)
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